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While I cannot personally comment on your mental state per se Many, if not most, parents learn soccer through the “trial by fire” method of being a youth soccer coach. I am thrilled to tell you that now there is a better way! You can now learn how to be a great soccer coach in the best possible way - from an expert! I have personally used these resources myself and wish that I had found them when I was a beginning soccer coach. This information will get you up to speed FAST while giving you a solid foundation upon which to build in future years. Check it out!
Your's truly has developed some of his own material for you as a beginning soccer coach. One of the first things you will need to know is: But wait! Don’t click there yet! Before the first practice can start you need to take care of a little often-overlooked bit of business – a Parents Meeting. The Parents Meeting I do not claim to be an expert on this subject but I CAN relate to you my own experiences and what has worked well for me personally. Put yourself in their shoes. What do you want to know as a parent from the soccer coach? Much of this material and more is also covered in the book, FUNdamental Soccer for Clueless Parents. There are two general categories of information to give the parents that I will loosely call Hard Facts and Soft Facts.
Hard Facts:
Soft Facts: Coaching Philosophy – Discuss the goal of the soccer program, your goal(s) as the soccer coach, and the upcoming season. Speak to the soccer parents in general terms about the team size, how substitutions will be done, and how players will be rotated through the various positions. For the younger teams there may be only one or two positions( on the field or goalkeeper) or you may have three. Use terms like offense, defense, and goalie. You will lose them with anything more technical like midfielder or striker. This website has outstanding references on this subject. Volunteer Help – Don’t be bashful about asking for help! Most parents are glad to help the soccer coach if you will specifically tell them what to do. Nine times out of 10 their reluctance to help is related to a feeling of inadequacy or ignorance. Educate them! Let them borrow your soccer coaching resources or recommend material the parents can purchase. Here’s a thought – send them to this website! Get their email addresses and send them information/updates the easy way. Some areas in which parents can help: bench management, refreshment schedule, help at practice, party planning, and making phone calls. Refreshments – Depending on your league rules, you may want to discuss a refreshment schedule with the parents and bringing vs. buying.
Disciplinary Guidelines – The best season I had as a soccer coach just from a pure enjoyment perspective was the first year I discussed discipline with the parents AND kids before the first practice. No one likes the subject but it is vital that everyone understands the rules and the consequences. Have the parents climbed on board? Good!
Before charging ahead to the practice, you should review the following two areas:
OK. OK. Anxious to move on? You didn’t cheat and skip ahead did you? I thought so. Here’s the beef.
Quick Resources for the Soccer Coach
You want a quick resource? How about some downloadable help? It doesn't get much quicker than this! I have personally used these resources myself and wish that I had found them when I started coaching soccer. This information will get you up to speed FAST while giving you a solid foundation upon which to build. Check it out! Also, you should go to my soccer book page and read the soccer book reviews before buying a book. The following resources are also excellent.
These two titles are brought to you byThe Soccer Vault.
The Soccer Vault is an excellent company with outstanding customer support. While these two videos from The Soccer Vault are at the top of my list, there are also other very good soccer videos to consider.
I personally like to have a hard copy of information. (No, don't bug me about being a tree killer.) While the videos from the Soccer Vault are great, I recommend at least one book on drills or on coaching youth soccer as a supplement and to take to the field. A good place to start is to browse through my soccer book recommendations.
Another well known resource is Amazon.com. They have a surprisingly vast amount of resources on soccer. Below is an example of a search done on soccer coach.
Another great idea is theKwik Goal Soccer Coach's Kit
No matter what you're looking for, I recommend starting with my
There are many, many more excellent resources for a soccer coach. I have researched and compiled a list of them on the Soccer Video page and the Soccer Book page. And last, but not least, never forget to
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